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Dispelling the Dupe


Agenda:  We will be covering:

  • We've All been Duped & How

  • How We Keep Buying into It

  • How We Create What We Experience

  • WHY We were Duped & Why We Want to Hold onto It

  • Your TRUE Mission in Life is to Solve THIS Greatest Mystery

  • Understanding Why Your Desires Are Very, Very IMPORTANT

We've All Been Duped And How We Keep Buying Into It

From infant hood until we're about 6 years of age (we'll call this Stage 1) our subconscious is like an empty computer being programmed with new software.  It's because we don't know anything as of yet to compare anything in order to make our choices such as preferences.  In other words, we're gullible.

In Stage 1 we are developing deep subconscious beliefs from what people are saying to us around us and/or about us.  But we're also developing deep subconscious beliefs as to what we're exposed to in our surroundings.

So we pick up pretty quickly, who is feeding us and enabling us to survive.  We gather they can do things we cannot.  So, as you continue to age in Stage 1, who looks like the smartest people you know?  Your guardians.  Why do we want to dispute what is taking caring of us and bringing us the results of surviving, when we cannot bring the results of surviving to ourselves alone?  They look a lot smarter to us than we do as ourselves.  And so we don't dispute them and anything they say has to be true because of their greater intelligence on how to survive!

Everything we're experiencing in Stage 1 is teaching us and we're believing everything we're learning in that stage, because we have no cognitive reasoning at this age to understand what may be true or not.  Also, we have no cognitive reasoning to understand things as they currently are, can change.  So, we develop a deeply set in unconscious belief change does not exist.  We believe this is how things are, and this is how they always will be.   And this is why, when we're not open minded, we're so quick to decide something different  than our Stage 1 beliefs is WRONG.  And this is also why many of us, struggle with change to this day.  We're rivaling that deep set in belief.


And so, there is deep programming running within you that you do not realize that's playing a role in forming the experiences you are having in your outer reality.

What's causing us to feel so uncomfortable is we're going against what our ego has come to believe is its only way to survive, which is operating under the programming it was initiated with during Stage 1.

So, how have we been duped?  We truly do believe this is the ONLY way to survive.  And we fall under the belief too that this is the ONLY way we ourselves can experience life.  So, for example if your family was poor.  Your surroundings were of meager housing, filled with hand-me-down clothes, having very few luxuries, and perhaps food was even scarce.  This is how your surrounding environment programmed you to believe in your Stage 1, "I am poor."

Most likely too, your family members often coined phrases such as, "There's not enough money to buy that," or "There's not food for the week," and so forth.  This is how others played the role in programming you to develop the deep unconscious belief, "I am poor," in Stage 1 as well.


So, when you develop the desire to no longer be poor, you may be making the conscious choice to be richer, but you are unaware of the unconscious war going on inside of you with your ego and it's greatest antagonist - Change.

We don't want to change because we truly feel and believe life is as it was first set up for you in Stage 1 - even if you don't like it that way.  Ego has what I call the forever/never complex.  What is now, will forever always be.  What is not now, will never ever be. 


Some struggles we experience with change are:

  • It's not normal

  • It's so different

  • It feels dangerous

  • We know we can survive where we are right now

  • We're unsure if we can survive in different circumstances even if they DO look better

  • Because this is going against who we feel we are.  Because we identify ourselves to be the person we became in our Stage 1 development, and we shall forever be that person!

This is HOW we were duped and WHY we keep buying into it.  For future reference you may hear us and many others refer to your Stage 1 development of beliefs as your paradigm beliefs.

Shou - How We Create What We Experience - LOA, Focus & Evidence

The Law of Attraction!  Have you heard of it?  It's pretty well known but if you haven't you are in for a treat, as this is going to show you how much power you actually do have and that you and you alone are in complete and total control of your life.  And yes, that does mean you can create anything you wish to experience in your life and the Law of Attraction is how. 

So this is a section in my freebie book Wizard Lessons 101: Revealing Your Universal Power & How to Use it.  As of right now it's still available and you can find it on WizeVibezTEC.com/books - completely free to read and a wonderful self-study book if you want to know more about your power and how to use it.  So I'm just going to go ahead and read from the book as it's really well explained here.

LOA Focus DIAGRAM-
Alrighty, so now that you know about the Law of Attraction I'm going to narrow it down a bit for you as well as describe it in a more physical manner to make it more easier to understand.  So now, be sure to FOCUS!  Haha, no but seriously.  So basically your focus is your dominant thoughts.  The thoughts you are thinking most of the time whether they are conscious or sub-conscious (usually your focus consist of sub-conscious thoughts, or in other words your paradigm).  Well your focus, your dominant thoughts, is what creates your feelings in your body.  From the feeling of Lack, Anger and Frustration to Abundance, Joy and Love.  And these feelings are really important you see.  They can be used to pinpoint what you are thinking about most of the time.  Thus, they can help you see where you are at so you can change your focus to something you would rather focus on.  But that's not all these feelings do, they also empower your actions.

As you can see, there are two pictures here.  One is of a man who is robbing something and the other is of a man giving a compassionate hug to someone.  Both of these actions are influenced and empowered by the feelings we have inside of us.  Can you tell which man has the feeling of Lack and Fear?  That would be the man who is robbing someone.  And the other man would have feelings of Love.  Now of course they both perhaps have a plethora of different feelings influencing their actions but ultimately you can narrow these feelings down to two: Feelings influenced by Fear or Negative Feelings & Feelings influenced by Love or Positive Feelings.  So these actions that we take create something I like to call "Connection Ports".  These ports are what allow others to connect with you.  This is where we go back to what the LoA is teaching us, Like Attracts Like.  Another good example to give you a better idea of what I mean by ports.  Think of a 2 Pronged Electrical Socket.  You have to have a 2 Pronged electrical cord to match the socket or the port.  You can't plug in a 3 pronged electrical cord into a 2 pronged port, it just doesn't work.

And so, simply put, Negativity will Connect with Negativity or Negative Ports and Positivity will Connect with Positivity or Positive Ports.  And remember, taking no action is also an action no matter how subtle it may seem.  And so, this is the importance of taking positive action to direct your focus towards the things you want to create in your life, rather than hiding from your focus thinking taking no action will get you the same results.  And this is some of what we are going to help you to do further in the program.  We're going to help you change your paradigm beliefs or your stage 1 beliefs in to ones that benefit you, so that your focus will attract the things you want instead of the things you don't.

Source Experiences Itself Through Us - RPG Game Allegory - Player/Avatar

Source, God, Divinity, the Universe, Life ... whichever you want to call it, is in everything and actually is everything.  Everything breaks down to light energy.  And that energy is a conscious energy.  You will hear us refer to this conscious energy interchangeably as Source, God, Divinity, and the Universe.

God knows all.  But to know something and to experience it is two very different things.  I like to use the example of you can read a driving manual to learn how to drive a vehicle, but to get in that vehicle and actually drive it is an entirely new ball game.  Source chooses to experience itself as all that it knows, and so it sets up the game of Life in order to do that.  In many different dimensions as well as the one, we as a group are forming and occupying here, the Third Dimension, most commonly known as Earth.

You ever play a child's game that is soo easy for you to win every time?  Like for example putting together a baby's puzzle for a toddler.  It has 4 huge pieces to the puzzle and you can put it together in seconds, over and over again with great ease.  What happens if you were to put that puzzle together for an hour?  You'd become pretty bored, right?

Well, for the Universe to experience itself in the smaller forms, if it held on to all its knowledge, anything it would do and experience in life would be as simple as that baby's puzzle and boring.  So, it set up a game of amnesia.  And that's where things start getting interesting.  Right there when Source chooses to really focus a part of itself and crystalize into a human form, a mystery is birthed.  And that is for that part of Source, the human God is within to remember who they really are.  That they are God themselves that they have everything within them.  That they are able to create anything and everything they want.  That they are all powerful.  And this is part of the fun, so we don't get bored with the baby's puzzle.

Now to experience the all knowledge the Divinity has it has to feel the contrasts.  In other words to experience something hot, like water and to define it as hot, we have to experience what cold is.  And the same for warm the balance.  To truly experience one form, you know must experience them all.  And this is how amnesia plays a helpful role in our experiences.

But the Universe is kind and we're not lost here to struggle all alone in this amnesia.  We have help.  We have an internal guidance system which is the very element of Source itself.  The part that holds all the wisdom, all the memory that never forgets and remembers how it chose to experience itself through you.  And this part is called your Higher Self, sometimes this is referred to as the Higher Mind as well.  We will refer to it from here as the Higher Self.

The Higher Self is often confused with the Soul.  So, we'll explain to you the difference.  A great analogy to express this concept is a role playing game.

Those of you familiar with playing role playing games online can easily grasp this.  For those of you not, we'll explain that in greater detail. 

When you sit at your computer to play a role playing game, you get to start by creating a character and naming it.  That is the character you will then take into the world of that game and experience the world that game has to offer.  You are the player.  Now, you can choose if you like to truly immerse yourself into this character and while on the character, play from that character's point of view.  In other words you'll make choices based on what you feel that character would choose, NOT what you would necessarily choose.  Even if that character is going to make a choice that you know would cause that character more chaos than not.  Again, you are the player, not that character.

Your Higher Self is like you.  The player.  Just as you retain full awareness that you are playing a roleplaying game with a character in an illusive digital, game world, (and thus remain completely safe), the Higher Self retains full awareness of the same for you.  Just as you retain full wisdom to see a choice the character is making in response to the game world, would not lead them to their best outcome, your Higher Self retains full wisdom watching you.  But just as you gave that character full freedom to be itself, immersed in that game world, the Higher Self so bestows you, as the Higher Self is the awareness part of the Divinity within you.

But unlike your character, who doesn't realize there's a player, (from their perspective if you sink into that role) that could help them with their choices, you as a player on 3D Earth, has the opportunity to know there's guidance to help you.  Your Higher Self.  Your Higher Self is the part of God that chose to experience life in a perspective way that will feel natural to you and is on your team 100% to see that you do get to experience and express your unique aspect of Divinity in life at its fullest in that manner!  But ... it will not interfere with your freedom.

So as you experience the polarities in life, such as hot, cold, warm, up, down, mid-ground, you start developing preferences.  Some people really like the up!  They want to be up in the air jumping out of airplanes.  They have something inside of them that this just excites them!  And they have this innate courage that motivates them to take on the challenge, finding it way more fun to do so than scary.  Where as many of us, are thinking are you outta yer mind? xD

So
through differences such as the polarities like hot and cold but then balance too like warm, definitions are formed (and their very personal for each of us) with the experiences of each as well as our preferences.  And it's with the definitions of our preferences DESIRES are birthed.

This brings us to why our desires are so very, very important.

Now, something very important to gather here is Source chooses to experience itself in various of ALL manners.  And so it Source has individualized itself with certain preferences and innate talents to experience bringing that into a full expression in various, particular, individualized souls (as well as inanimate objects).

Our desires and innate talents are giving us clue as to how Source wanted to express itself uniquely through YOU.  This is called being in alignment with who you really are.  When you feel joy without any feelings of ick, you're being who you really are.

A good example is why some people find music delightful and easy for them.  They should be our musicians!   Imagine someone who hates music, does not understand it, trying to become a professional violinist.  It would be painful for us all.

Yet, that is exactly what we see, for example when we see a teacher who took on teaching and hates kids, making students, parents and their own lives miserable.  That teacher's love and innate talents were in writing, but they didn't believe they could make enough money doing what they love.  They feared the starving artist syndrome.

So, they chose to teach English instead without any innate talents and desires of working with children.  They settled.  And with their settling we're missing out on that great story hidden in this person's heart, or that great non-fictional eye-opener,  on top of the misery that is being caused for the students, parents and this teacher being in an environment that does not match their preferences.


This is why your desires are very important to look at!  This tells who you who YOU are.  This tells you how Source chose to experience itself through you.  Embracing your desires, embracing who you REALLY are incorporates flow in your life.

Trying to do or be something you're not because of fear like, “I can't do what I desire because – (fill in with old paradigm beliefs),” is trying to force something that does NOT fit and with that brings on the experience of stuckness, agitation, frustration, which can lead to habits we dislike, trying to find some form of happiness, because things are not working and you have this constant feeling of being out of alignment with who you really are.

We really gotta stop trying to fit that square peg into that round hole and admit and embrace our TRUE shape and allow ourselves to be our true shape.  It is in such allowance, we find flow, joy, ease and excitement.

To do this we gotta get over – HOLDING ON FOR DEAR LIFE to that which feels familiar, thus FALSELY feels “safe” and embrace the change that leads to our desires.  Remember, that familiarity is merely the Stage 1 beliefs of the ego's perspective as this is the ONLY way it can survive and/or is permitted to experience life.

And this is easy to understand logically, (your mind's perspective), spiritually, (your Higher Self's perspective), but it gets tricky to let go of that fear (and the beliefs that fuel it) and feel without fear in agreement to all of that (your unbalanced ego's perspective).

We're going to help you bring your ego into balance with your mind and Higher Self and erase and replace the beliefs holding you back with saturation of new ones, starting with connecting you directly with your Higher Self, which is next week's agenda!  Meeting your Higher Self!

When you get a glimpse of who you really are through meeting your Higher Self, it can be such a refreshing, and amazing feeling compared to how you keep seeing yourself with the many masks you wear to “survive” in society.  You've even begun to dupe yourself with these masks, and believe too the masks are really you, when they're not.

This is how meeting your Higher Self is a grand first step to solving the greatest mystery of “discovering”, (really remembering) who you really are!



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