 One of the greatest illusions we fall for in life is the illusion of negativity. As well as the illusion of duality. And when we fall for these illusions we can get stuck in a trap of endless suffering, that which can be very difficult to get out of. And so that leads us into today's article, that the only true existence is actually Positivity. A Singularity Must Exist before a DualityYou must understand for 2 things to exist, there must first be 1 thing. Why? Because two things are just the accounting of two singularities, thus, the only true existence is actually a singularity. And that duality is just an illusion created out of multiple singularities. So what does this mean? Simply: Light must exist before darkness. Love must exist before Fear. 1 must exist before 2. This is the idea. Now how does this apply to everything being positive and good? Well we must understand the nature of positivity. The nature of unconditional love itself. And that nature is Complete Allowance of Everything and All Things that Exist. If it wasn't for this complete allowance of everything, there wouldn't be anything to exist. Thus, the world at its very core is Unconditional Love. Which means the world at its very core is positive. It's not because of Fear, Anger or Hatred that everything exists, it's the very nature of those things to disallow things. To push away instead of allow and embrace. The truth of all things is love. It is the Nature of Life to Grow A good example of all this is growth. We find it everywhere in every and all things. All of the entire universe is in a constant state of growing. Edwin Hubble was the first to prove that the Entire Universe was expanding. And that includes everything in it. Why? Because the Universe IS All that Exists. Everything is growing and when things are growing that means it's a positive. Math even shows this, when you add on to something it grows and becomes a 'positive' number. Even when you add on to negativity, the same thing occurs. Even Acting Negative is Positive This is where it gets confusing to some people. But think about it. If everything is for growth then all things are positive and that includes negativity. All negativity is for is just contrast to help stimulate growth. It's there to help us figure out what we do like. Which ultimately means it's a positive thing. Where we have most trouble accepting this is when it comes to suffering due to negative circumstances occurring in our lives. We look at the negative experiences and we allow them to shape our state of being or to dictate how we feel. And when we do that, we suffer. If however, we were able to look at all things we judge negative and start to judge them as the truth that is really there, positive, we would no longer suffer. Even in the mist of the 'negative' circumstances we would see the truth that they are positive and then immediately start to feel better about the experience, thus, instantly transmuting it into a positive. And the greatest thing about this is, not only does emotional suffering end immediately, our physical reality starts to support our inner world. Which is a world of feeling good, thus, our physical circumstances that we once experienced change as well. You'll no longer have the same physical experience you found negative. Unless of course, you want to, as you now see it as positive. "True positive thinking is not the absence of negative thoughts." - Don Shapiro Much Love to You, Shou 
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 Ever hear the phrase; "Live in the Now"? Ever wonder what's so important about being Present? Well let's look at it for a bit. Here's another word for you: Present. When you see it this way it doesn't seem very powerful. So let's break it down into: Pre-Sent. See it now? The Power behind being Pre-Sent:Your creational power is really only at it's strongest when you are in the Now, or Pre Sent. Why? Because your power is based upon your feeling. When you are feeling something, this shifts your vibration into what that feeling entices. So if you're in a state of feeling joy predominately, you will hold a vibration of joy. Or for more specific circumstances, if you feel as if you have a brand new car or amazing relationship in your life predominately, you will become a vibrational match to just that. And this is what manifests this creation into your physical reality. And so, if you can be in a state of being Pre Sent most of the time which is being in the now and living for the moment, you will create more of that which you are vibrating much more easily. This is because by being present you are focused on the here and now and a side effect of this is experiencing more joy. Joy is more easily found in the moment and Joy is a state of being that is a match to ease and non-resistance, thus, everything flows more easily and much faster, including creation. Feeling as if it's Pre Sent: Lastly, when it comes to creation you have to feel as if you have what you want to manifest before it's manifested. And so, that's where the word Pre Sent comes in. Be Pre Sent. In the feeling as if it's already been sent before it was sent. This feeling can easily be generated in the moment of Now. In the Present. How? Again because Joy is found in the moment of Now. It's at it's most powerful vibration in the now and when you are in a state of Joy, you aren't feeling any lack or loss, thus, you are focused on one of the most powerful feelings that matches having what you wanted to manifest; Joy. If you feel like you are Nowhere, be 'Now Here': Aren't these words just amazing? ;) When you feel like you are nowhere or are getting nowhere, perfect! Take this as an opportunity to be Now Here. It's the power of God, embrace it! "The future depends on what we do in the present." - Mahatma Ghandi Much Love to You, Shou   It's very simple. There is nothing that isn't possible because for anything to not be possible, possibility must exist first. To negate something is to affirm that the something you wish to negate, exists. The Word, "Im-Possible" tells on itself Look at it. It's in the word itself. "I'm Possible." Coincidence? No. Words are created based upon simplicity. Whatever is seen in life is given a word to symbolize it, and they are always and can only ever be 100% of the original creators perception. And for our English Language collective, the perception of this word would likely be "I'm Possible". Why would this be? Because all truth is revealed through everything. You cannot ever truly hide the truth, or lie. Because again, for the opposite of something (in this case the truth) to exist, it must affirm that it's opposite exists first. There can be no shadow without light to cast it. There can be no dis-allowance of something without allowance of even the act of disallowing. I'm Possible means Everything is Possible Why is this? Because You are Everything! And Everything is You! All things are connected and all things are one. At the core of everything we are all Energy, God, Divinity, Love, etc. And that core must be there for everything else to exist. If there is no seed, there is no plant to grow from it. There are no branches to extend themselves in the world. And so when you see that all that exists is You and You are all that exists, you will understand the meaning behind "I'm Possible". When you realize You are Everything and You see and read the words I'm Possible, you then know that Everything is Possible. "It's kind of fun to do the impossible." - Walt Disney Much Love to You, Shou Live like Walt Disney! Start Doing the Im-Possible! |
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You Always Get the WHOLE COIN
Due to the nature of this world, Balance is required for things to exist. You can't have Black if you don't have White, Happiness without Sadness, Rich without Poor and so on. This is because each of these are labels of difference and if there were no opposites we would have no differences. And so, when you choose one side no matter which, you automatically choose the other side. Why? Because each side is part of a whole, and to choose one side you have to choose the Whole Coin which gives you both sides.
For Example:
If you choose one side to the extreme, normally you will become hateful and intolerant towards the opposite side. And so, this makes you resistant to the opposite side and a match to it as well. (What you Resist Persists) You see, for the balance of life to occur and for you to keep your position of extreme one-sidedness on whatever it may be, you must have the opposite side in your life. In most cases the opposite side will appear through other people but if not, it will choose anything in your life to express itself, including You! Lets say you went to the extreme of not speaking up for yourself for 3 months and then out of nowhere you blow up on people like a volcano. In this case you went to both extremes: Not Standing Up for Yourself at All and Standing Up for Yourself too Much!
Also, while on that subject, choosing one side to the extreme breeds feelings of fear inside of you and if taken too far can lead to extreme consequences such as violence, war, disharmony and unrest. How many countless fights have you seen last decades because people only heard or listened to one side of the story?
For Example:
If you choose one side to the extreme, normally you will become hateful and intolerant towards the opposite side. And so, this makes you resistant to the opposite side and a match to it as well. (What you Resist Persists) You see, for the balance of life to occur and for you to keep your position of extreme one-sidedness on whatever it may be, you must have the opposite side in your life. In most cases the opposite side will appear through other people but if not, it will choose anything in your life to express itself, including You! Lets say you went to the extreme of not speaking up for yourself for 3 months and then out of nowhere you blow up on people like a volcano. In this case you went to both extremes: Not Standing Up for Yourself at All and Standing Up for Yourself too Much!
Also, while on that subject, choosing one side to the extreme breeds feelings of fear inside of you and if taken too far can lead to extreme consequences such as violence, war, disharmony and unrest. How many countless fights have you seen last decades because people only heard or listened to one side of the story?
Choose to Live on the Edge
Contrary to popular belief, living on the edge is NOT EXTREME but is the most balanced approach you can take. You see when we live on the edge or the rim of the coin, we get to see both sides. And by acknowledging the duality within ourselves (light & darkness), we embrace a balanced viewpoint upon life, thus, creating a life of harmony, trust and peace.
All wars are started upon feelings of fear and distrust. And if you embrace the other side and open yourself to seeing their perspective you become more willing to work with them. Also, by hearing their story, you open yourself to being more trusting of them and them of you, as you showed them how to do it.
All wars are started upon feelings of fear and distrust. And if you embrace the other side and open yourself to seeing their perspective you become more willing to work with them. Also, by hearing their story, you open yourself to being more trusting of them and them of you, as you showed them how to do it.
So What Can You do?
The next time you find yourself fighting another person, remember, open yourself to hearing their side and acknowledging their truth as valid for them. This does not mean do not speak your truth or that your truth is invalid, it's not. But neither is theirs. Both of your truths come from one side of the coin and both are completely valid. But when others feel that their truth is invalid, they will become resistant to working with you, thus, continue to live in extremes. And since you can't change people, change yourself. Realize that your side of the truth is valid so you may give them that same courtesy and respect. Be willing to work with them and you will see in time, others will be willing to work with you.
Lastly, once you can open yourself to hearing the other side, try to find the good in what they are saying. Look for how their side is helpful to you. And once you can truly do that, then start incorporating what they are fighting for into your life. Remember, living a Balanced life means having a blend of both and not to the extremes of 95/5 but more like 50/50. If you can do this, you will find yourself no longer resisting the other side but instead embracing it. And when you embrace others and find what they are doing as positive, you will find no need to fight, as you my friend, are in a state of Balance.
Lastly, once you can open yourself to hearing the other side, try to find the good in what they are saying. Look for how their side is helpful to you. And once you can truly do that, then start incorporating what they are fighting for into your life. Remember, living a Balanced life means having a blend of both and not to the extremes of 95/5 but more like 50/50. If you can do this, you will find yourself no longer resisting the other side but instead embracing it. And when you embrace others and find what they are doing as positive, you will find no need to fight, as you my friend, are in a state of Balance.
The Coin Tilts Slightly More to the Positive:
Check out my follow-up article Life Favors the Positive More! that talks about how the Balance of Negative and Positive isn't a 50/50 Deal!
For a more fun personal interaction with me on this subject, I made a video on this, check it out below!
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Did you know that Life's Balance of Positive & Negative in this world isn't 50/50? Instead it's more like 51% Positive and 49% Negative. The significance in this 1% difference is quite immense though, so it can feel like the balance is 60% Positive and 40% Negative. This is the reason why every living being is pushed towards Unconditional Love and why we all have the urge to do good and spread positivity throughout the world.
Growth is a Natural Occurrence of Life:
A good way to showcase this is that Growth is a naturally occurring phenomena throughout Life. All living beings share this unique quality: The Desire to Grow. From the smallest micro-organisms to the some of the most complex Humans, we all share this inner desire.
And Growth means to expand oneself or to increase in some area, whether physical, emotional, mental or spiritual. This can be correlated to Positivity, as it is represented by a + sign and Plus means to add on or Grow. We also associate Growth with Positivity as we see Positivity as a good thing, as well as Growth.
A Few Examples Include: Growing Stronger or Wiser, Growing Your Business, Expanding Your Awareness, Growing Food, Growing into an Adult, etc. We all see these as Positive things.
So to sum it all up, the Nature of Life and the world itself is Positive, as it is the Nature of Life to Grow.
And Growth means to expand oneself or to increase in some area, whether physical, emotional, mental or spiritual. This can be correlated to Positivity, as it is represented by a + sign and Plus means to add on or Grow. We also associate Growth with Positivity as we see Positivity as a good thing, as well as Growth.
A Few Examples Include: Growing Stronger or Wiser, Growing Your Business, Expanding Your Awareness, Growing Food, Growing into an Adult, etc. We all see these as Positive things.
So to sum it all up, the Nature of Life and the world itself is Positive, as it is the Nature of Life to Grow.
Even Growing in a Negative Way is Positive:
This is where it gets kinda crazy. Ever wonder why people who do terrible things continue to do so and expand their negative actions into even more negative actions? Well that's because in some way, it feels good to them. And since it feels good to them and they see it as a good thing, that means they also see it as a positive thing. Most people who do terrible things and were asked why they did so always answer that they believe they are doing good.
One example is Hitler, he was quoted saying: "Hence today I believe that I am acting in accordance with the will of the Almighty Creator: by defending myself against the Jew, I am fighting for the work of the Lord." While many people may disagree that he was doing good, at least to him, he believed he was.
Another way you can look at it is to use yourself as an example. When you committed a negative action in the past why did you do it? There was some part of you that felt good doing it and so you saw it as a Positive.
One example is Hitler, he was quoted saying: "Hence today I believe that I am acting in accordance with the will of the Almighty Creator: by defending myself against the Jew, I am fighting for the work of the Lord." While many people may disagree that he was doing good, at least to him, he believed he was.
Another way you can look at it is to use yourself as an example. When you committed a negative action in the past why did you do it? There was some part of you that felt good doing it and so you saw it as a Positive.
In Reference to the Coin:
--> If you've read my other article, Bring Balance to Your Life by Living on the Edge!, you're familiar with The Coin Metaphor regarding the Balance of Dualities in Life. If not go read it, it's really good! <--
So how does the Universe favor positivity even by just 1% if there are two equal sides on the coin? Well, this question I was having trouble with too but I found an answer from a well known and respected Channeller, Darryl Anka, who in this case is Channeling Bashar.
What I gathered was this: the Edge of the Coin has a slight tilt towards the Positive side. Meaning there is 1% more of the Positive side than there is of the negative side. So imagine a coin that from the negative side has an edge that's formed like a slope sliding towards the positive side.
Bashar goes on to say that those who are trying to stay on the Positive side need not to struggle so hard to do so and just need to find there way to the edge so that they may slide back towards it. "The Edge of the Coin Gives You an Edge." - Bashar, (Darryl Anka) (Interestingly enough we both used a Coin Metaphor! I had no idea when I was looking for help with this subject, I thought that was really cool! ^-^v)
So put simply, if you find yourself on the Negative side of the coin, find your way towards the edge and it will get easier from there.
What I gathered was this: the Edge of the Coin has a slight tilt towards the Positive side. Meaning there is 1% more of the Positive side than there is of the negative side. So imagine a coin that from the negative side has an edge that's formed like a slope sliding towards the positive side.
Bashar goes on to say that those who are trying to stay on the Positive side need not to struggle so hard to do so and just need to find there way to the edge so that they may slide back towards it. "The Edge of the Coin Gives You an Edge." - Bashar, (Darryl Anka) (Interestingly enough we both used a Coin Metaphor! I had no idea when I was looking for help with this subject, I thought that was really cool! ^-^v)
So put simply, if you find yourself on the Negative side of the coin, find your way towards the edge and it will get easier from there.
Our Universal Desire to be Happy:
Lastly to finish this article off, we all have the desire to be Happy. We all want to feel good and en-Joy our lives. Everyone wants to just have fun and live a life Full of Positivity. Just sometimes, we can get stuck in Fear and commit terrible acts. But even so, those acts are made in quest of a Positive Outcome. We act to create what we think will lead us to a more Positive Life, even if we're completely wrong. Regardless of that, the innate desire for Positivity is there in every Child that comes into this world, whether or not it flourishes in a healthy way depends on our Collective World. The more people to act in True Positivity (Love not Fear), the easier it is for us all to find our way to the Edge and stay on the Positive Side.
How to Stay on the Positive Side:
Check out my article 5 Easy Steps to Bring More Positivity into Your Life so you can stay on the Positive side of the coin!
In a world full of responsibilities and overwhelming challenges sometimes it can be hard to feel positive and joyful about life. And so here are 5 Simple Steps to Bringing More Positivity in Your Life!
Step 1: Realize There is Always a Positive!
Positivity and Negativity are Two Sides to the Same Coin. And because of this, you can always find a positive in a negative situation, you just have to look for it. You see what you put your focus on, you're going to see most of that. Your perception is kind of like a telescope, it's only limited at what you focus it at and you have the choice to look at anything that you want. Even while there might be a spider to the left, you can still choose to see the flower to the right of it. And you might find it inspiring that Life Favors the Positive More than it does the negative at that.
Step 2: Accept Where You Are and Move Forward
A lot of us have the tendency to not accept where we are in life and what we are experiencing. This is choosing to focus on the negative of the situation. Know where you are so you can move forward. Learn what you can to help you get to where you want to be. Accepting where you are doesn't mean you have to stay where you are, it does quite the opposite actually, it propels you forward to your destination. It allows you to use the resources that you have right now where you are to achieve your goal and reach your destination.
Step 3: Practice Gratitude
This is one of the most powerful tools you can use to bring more positivity in your life. By taking the time to look at all of the things you are thankful for you are practicing present positivity. This is literally taking the time to just choose to be positive. You will be amazed at how good you will feel after looking at all of the things you are thankful for even if it's for the day or the smallest thing.
Try writing a Gratitude Log. This is kind of like a journal that you can write in daily. Take 10 minutes a day and write down everything in as much detail as you like (so that you can feel the positive from it) and you will bring a huge surge of positive energy into your life. You'll likely extend how long you do this as it is so life improving. And on the days you feel like its too hard to find the positive, go back and read the previous entries you made, it really helps on a rainy day.
Try writing a Gratitude Log. This is kind of like a journal that you can write in daily. Take 10 minutes a day and write down everything in as much detail as you like (so that you can feel the positive from it) and you will bring a huge surge of positive energy into your life. You'll likely extend how long you do this as it is so life improving. And on the days you feel like its too hard to find the positive, go back and read the previous entries you made, it really helps on a rainy day.
Step 4: Live Your Passion
If you Live Your Passion everyday not only are you bringing in more positivity into your life, but for all of Earth as well. By pursuing your Passion and Highest Joy you are expressing yourself at your best. When we have a genuine interest in something, we master it. We become one with it and it becomes our strongest tool to spread good in the world. You also stay in a better mood as you hold true love for what you do rather than just doing something because you feel that you have to. And just by being in a better mood, (which is positive if I might add) you are spreading more positive to others as well. And this triggers a butterfly effect that eventually influences the whole world to be more positive.
Let's not forget that you are also teaching others in the best way possible to Live Their Passion by showing them the best example you can. Think about it, how did you learn the best in school? When a teacher told you something or when they showed you how to do it?
Let's not forget that you are also teaching others in the best way possible to Live Their Passion by showing them the best example you can. Think about it, how did you learn the best in school? When a teacher told you something or when they showed you how to do it?
Step 5: Have Fun Everyday!
This one should be a given for us all but you'd be surprised how many of us forget to do this everyday. We get so caught up in work, being responsible and just surviving that we forget One of the Key Ingredients to Actually Living: Enjoyment! We start to look at having fun and being happy as a bad thing, as it stops us from getting the things that need to be done, done. But you see when we neglect having fun in our lives and treat ourselves like machines everything starts to go down a deep spiral of negativity and things start to break down and get worse and worse. We even lose the will to live which leads to Productivity and Quality of that Productivity decreasing. It also causes our health to diminish as we stop taking care of ourselves.
However, when you throw some fun into the equation, things start to get better! There have been some studies where big businesses started to give people more vacation time and benefits than they used to and the results were inspiring! Productivity and Production Quality increased, people started taking less sick days, and they even spread the word of how good the company was to work for, thus, increasing the company's reputation.
So the point is this: When You Don't Force Yourself to Work All of the Time and Have Some Fun, You'll Work Better Which Leads to Better Productivity/Quality and a Better Quality Life for Us All.
However, when you throw some fun into the equation, things start to get better! There have been some studies where big businesses started to give people more vacation time and benefits than they used to and the results were inspiring! Productivity and Production Quality increased, people started taking less sick days, and they even spread the word of how good the company was to work for, thus, increasing the company's reputation.
So the point is this: When You Don't Force Yourself to Work All of the Time and Have Some Fun, You'll Work Better Which Leads to Better Productivity/Quality and a Better Quality Life for Us All.
Having trouble Letting Go of something but don't know Where to Start or How to Do it? I've had this very trouble myself and it can be frustrating. But rejoice! I've found a process to help you easily let go that has worked wonders for me and others who have tried it! Here are 3 Simple Steps to Successfully Letting Go!
Step 1: Accept You are No Longer a Match
Look at what you are trying to let go of and realize and accept you are no longer a match. That you are no longer working out like you used to work out and that it's okay, it's time to move on. Usually when you are not a match to something there is a lot of tension between you and it and things just are not working harmoniously. You're on two different paths and they're simply just going in their own directions. It is safe to let go and actually better for the both of you.
Step 2: Allow Yourself to Grieve & Give Yourself Love
Allow Yourself to Grieve and Give Yourself Love. This step is very important as if you just suppress your feelings and push them aside you end up keeping your focus on the negative. The reason being is that you've put a block on the flow of negative energy out of your body and it needs to get out. And if it doesn't it always keeps your focus on it, as it causes you pain, which tends to attract more negativity and makes the process of letting go much harder than it needs to be.
Step 3: Invest in Your Joy and Excitement!
Focus On and Invest Your Energy into the things that Bring You Joy and What You are a Match to. If there's a certain experience, sport, person you'd like to have more of in your life go for it! When you focus all of your thoughts and energy towards the things that bring you joy you start to basically seal the process of letting go. It is literally You Moving On to better things.
You may have a few layers come up in the future with anything you may have missed grieving on but that's okay and it's normal. If we tried to work through all the layers at once it would be overwhelming and in my opinion would kill us as we can't take the intensity. It's like trying to lift 1000 pounds/kilos when we're only used to lifting 100, it'd break our arms. This is the beauty of having layers. We can deal with pain a bit at a time and still enjoy our lives as well.
You may have a few layers come up in the future with anything you may have missed grieving on but that's okay and it's normal. If we tried to work through all the layers at once it would be overwhelming and in my opinion would kill us as we can't take the intensity. It's like trying to lift 1000 pounds/kilos when we're only used to lifting 100, it'd break our arms. This is the beauty of having layers. We can deal with pain a bit at a time and still enjoy our lives as well.
For a more fun personal interaction with me on this subject, I made a video on this, check it out below!
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